Everything has an end, we'll have to face it. Some may just last for seconds, some for generations, but they just end. From crushes to epic emotions, they just seem to disappear. Although it's sad, they just happen. What's great though, is that sometimes, they reappear. :)
Even if it's the sweetest, candy-coated, nine-clouded, best described, most defined, blissful, infinitely wonderful, favorably fascinating, and just exaggeratedly overexposed to our hearts, love, just ends. And there are only two reasons why they end: the GOODreason, and the BAD reason.
The GOOD reason:
When the feeling is mutual, and you both realized you need to let go and just end what you currently have, or when no matter what miraculous things you do destiny just keeps you straight apart. It's great, since both are being okay about it.
The BAD reason:
Love might be blind, yes, but we still overuse our eyes and just set our attention mostly to your cardiovascular hemisphere, and face it, when we do, we just becomeFAULTFINDERS. Because, in every little detail of his/her life we look at, we just don't see the good things, but also the bad ones. And when we do, we get discouraged, and ultimately, the relationship goes downhill and just gets buried six feet under.
However, no matter what the reason, it just comes to the same conclusion- the relationship has to end. But, what would you do, if you realized that you were entirely wrong? That what you thought about when you broke up was just a lame excuse, and when you realize that you still need each other?
Love is always sweeter the second time around- you know why? Because 'twas always great when you both know your weaknesses already, and you fill up those holes and make your bonding even stronger. You hold on even stronger, because now, you realize, that what was once yours, is now back, and that it was worth fighting for it and having it back.
If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down but the staying down.
But sometimes, too, destiny just decides that it doesn't and will never work out again. However, it's still a good thing. If you were deserted, ditched, or anything near otherwise, just thank the person for giving you an opportunity to know someone else. :)
Sometimes goodbye is a second chance.
And that's why we love. Because it's a capability that makes us happy and better. :) For every heartbreaking song that plays on the radio, for every tormenting, sad movie we see and stories we hear about bad breakups, still, it's refreshing to see couples cuddle up each other when the weather gets cold and enjoy the heat of the sun with laughters and embraces- and in the end, we get to realize that no matter how painful and how hard love may seem, we would want it- and would not stop wanting it. :)
We don't love just to have someone else in our lives, we love because we found life with that someone else. :)
Even if it's the sweetest, candy-coated, nine-clouded, best described, most defined, blissful, infinitely wonderful, favorably fascinating, and just exaggeratedly overexposed to our hearts, love, just ends. And there are only two reasons why they end: the GOODreason, and the BAD reason.
The GOOD reason:
When the feeling is mutual, and you both realized you need to let go and just end what you currently have, or when no matter what miraculous things you do destiny just keeps you straight apart. It's great, since both are being okay about it.
The BAD reason:
Love might be blind, yes, but we still overuse our eyes and just set our attention mostly to your cardiovascular hemisphere, and face it, when we do, we just becomeFAULTFINDERS. Because, in every little detail of his/her life we look at, we just don't see the good things, but also the bad ones. And when we do, we get discouraged, and ultimately, the relationship goes downhill and just gets buried six feet under.
However, no matter what the reason, it just comes to the same conclusion- the relationship has to end. But, what would you do, if you realized that you were entirely wrong? That what you thought about when you broke up was just a lame excuse, and when you realize that you still need each other?
Love is always sweeter the second time around- you know why? Because 'twas always great when you both know your weaknesses already, and you fill up those holes and make your bonding even stronger. You hold on even stronger, because now, you realize, that what was once yours, is now back, and that it was worth fighting for it and having it back.
If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down but the staying down.
But sometimes, too, destiny just decides that it doesn't and will never work out again. However, it's still a good thing. If you were deserted, ditched, or anything near otherwise, just thank the person for giving you an opportunity to know someone else. :)
Sometimes goodbye is a second chance.
And that's why we love. Because it's a capability that makes us happy and better. :) For every heartbreaking song that plays on the radio, for every tormenting, sad movie we see and stories we hear about bad breakups, still, it's refreshing to see couples cuddle up each other when the weather gets cold and enjoy the heat of the sun with laughters and embraces- and in the end, we get to realize that no matter how painful and how hard love may seem, we would want it- and would not stop wanting it. :)
We don't love just to have someone else in our lives, we love because we found life with that someone else. :)
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