Letting Go
If you want something so much, let it go;
if it comes back, it's yours,
if it doesn't, you never really had it anyway.
Love may be unconditional, but relationships aren't. There will always be a big turning point on a relationship that decides whether it goes on or it ends. Sometimes, the other half realizes that it wouldn't work out because of some inevitable circumstances- like when she realizes that love isn't really blind- because she sees something better in someone else. It might be painful, but it's true- nothing was meant to last forever. It could've been great if it returns right after the second it was lost, but it doesn't. It gets lost forever.
Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.
Sometimes, we just need to let go. If we really care for that person, then we let that person go. We must not become so selfish and narcissistic because we want ourselves to be happy. The point is, shall we force someone to be within our grasp, to love us with half the intent, for us to be happy? Will we force someone to love us? I for one, will answer no. There is no such sense in holding on to a relationship when the other half does not really bother to care anymore. If he/she is happier with someone else, then let her go. I think we must not disturb the new happiness of a person we love. If we love that person, and if that person's happy with someone else, then we'll be happy.
There’s no need to miss someone from your past- There’s a reason they didn’t make it to your future.
Letting go might be difficult, but it's one way of saying that you really love the person. You do not cling on to your wants, but you respect that person's decision. It might be tough to move on, but you have to. He/She might not be your fated behalf, maybe not the one before, or not the one next- but that fated behalf will arrive at a certainly uncertain time. Because, true love only happens once.
True love doesn’t have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.
A relationship was never about you or her or you or him, but about the both of you. :)
if it comes back, it's yours,
if it doesn't, you never really had it anyway.
Love may be unconditional, but relationships aren't. There will always be a big turning point on a relationship that decides whether it goes on or it ends. Sometimes, the other half realizes that it wouldn't work out because of some inevitable circumstances- like when she realizes that love isn't really blind- because she sees something better in someone else. It might be painful, but it's true- nothing was meant to last forever. It could've been great if it returns right after the second it was lost, but it doesn't. It gets lost forever.
Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.
Sometimes, we just need to let go. If we really care for that person, then we let that person go. We must not become so selfish and narcissistic because we want ourselves to be happy. The point is, shall we force someone to be within our grasp, to love us with half the intent, for us to be happy? Will we force someone to love us? I for one, will answer no. There is no such sense in holding on to a relationship when the other half does not really bother to care anymore. If he/she is happier with someone else, then let her go. I think we must not disturb the new happiness of a person we love. If we love that person, and if that person's happy with someone else, then we'll be happy.
There’s no need to miss someone from your past- There’s a reason they didn’t make it to your future.
Letting go might be difficult, but it's one way of saying that you really love the person. You do not cling on to your wants, but you respect that person's decision. It might be tough to move on, but you have to. He/She might not be your fated behalf, maybe not the one before, or not the one next- but that fated behalf will arrive at a certainly uncertain time. Because, true love only happens once.
True love doesn’t have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.
A relationship was never about you or her or you or him, but about the both of you. :)
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